Infection with stretching?

So, some ears can't be stretched I realized when doing my research before stretching my ears. I did not think in a billion years my ears wouldn't be able to be stretched. I made it to 10g. I kept the 10gs in for around a month. When I tried to size up to 8g, every morning when I woke up the tapers would be out. I think that's a sign of rejection? Anyways, I was wondering if I should downsize, or take out the tapers completely. Right now I don't have anything in. My right ear is fine, but my left ear is oozing and bleeding. There's no sign of a blowout, seeing there is no extra flap of skin, and the holes look normal. The left one is just so sore and it's painful to put any type of earring through it.